tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5100529074143436199.post3022985443715777238..comments2023-04-28T07:23:21.742-05:00Comments on Not What I Expected: Grief groupsKristihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16561217483266425653noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5100529074143436199.post-78889328811811586342010-08-11T22:38:31.307-05:002010-08-11T22:38:31.307-05:00I think if you felt an emotional connection to T&#...I think if you felt an emotional connection to T's mother then you should send her a note- maybe she feels the same. <br /><br />I've thought about going back but I know the group would not be the same. I hope you find another group that will better suit you.Monica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5100529074143436199.post-69480546837038003862010-08-08T19:27:03.829-05:002010-08-08T19:27:03.829-05:00I think I would have cried too, having to tell the...I think I would have cried too, having to tell the whole story again.<br /><br />and that sounds like a tough group for us. a close but not great matchYa Chunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08816837461370619194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5100529074143436199.post-76374468825812836022010-08-07T20:46:09.521-05:002010-08-07T20:46:09.521-05:00That reminds me - October will be 4 years sine we ...That reminds me - October will be 4 years sine we lost Sara, the other couples lost their children 2 Years ago or less. I felt like I was being judged, no one said anything, but it went along with them having had years of memories of their children & me losing Sara at birth. Perhaps another reason why I was crying? If it was a group who had experienced infant loss, I think I would have been more comfortable.Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16561217483266425653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5100529074143436199.post-33603813244211051282010-08-07T20:34:40.039-05:002010-08-07T20:34:40.039-05:00The group I found locally that I went to for a whi...The group I found locally that I went to for a while was like that - but it was all moms. It was all children, and me with my stillborn daughter story. It was hard, because I once again felt I didn't belong, and I felt like my loss was more ... insignificant. They were very kind, but I felt that way.<br /><br />Also, there were several moms who lost a child to suicides and accidents and ... I went home hurting for them, hurting more than when I went.Michelle Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04665476122527250862noreply@blogger.com